Perspective…
If you’ve read my previous blogs you’ll know I’m a married mum of 3.
Here’s an update for those who may be interested. I just turned 38 and I left my employment of 15 years almost 2 years ago. My mum, who was my main child carer and my best friend was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer right after I quit my job and my heart broke on July 24th this year when she died. I was fortunate in that I was able to leave work and take care of my mum. I was one of her main carers, took her to all her hospital appointments and was with her when she took her final breath.
My husband failed all his gcse’s. Through hard work, dedication, sacrifices and evening courses, he now has a great job in the renewable energy field. He is away a lot and that is hard as a family to deal with but he is a brilliant partner, father and provider. We agreed that having 3 fairly young kids (the youngest being 8) it made sense for me to stay at home. He is away so often, we don’t have regular childcare and I am still deep in the grieving process … therefore, for us, it works for me to be a stay at home mum for now. He is a very private person but I want to share our situation. It will probably be similar to many across the country. I want to share why we are staunch Labour, No…staunch Corbyn, supporters.
On paper my husband earns great money. £75k plus bonus. We live in the north of England where houses are cheaper as is the cost of living…so I’m to believe. We only have one income. We don’t receive any child benefit as he earns over £60k. A portion of his wage and bonus is taxed at 40%. Yet with 3 growing kids and all the household bills we are always overdrawn come payday. I am by no means crying poverty! I am fully aware that we have a great life compared to so many. Are we in the top 5 of UK earners? I read that somewhere recently. We have a relatively small 4 bed house. Our cars are far from flash (a 7 seater “mum” Verso and a Skoda estate). We are SO much better off than many, many people… but we have no savings, no money left at the end of the month. Our gas, electric and water bills alone come to over £200 a month. Add on the council tax, mortgage, food and fuel bills and there’s not much left. We are better off than so many people. Worse off than many families and similar to lots of others.
We support a Corbyn led government.
We want those less fortunate to have the help they need. We want those in dire circumstances to get the health care they deserve. We want those kids growing up less fortunate than our own to have a great education system with the same opportunities. If my husband earns over £80k this year we don’t care that he will be taxed even more because it will be spent wisely under a Labour government. It will provide great education, a less strained NHS. It will go towards helping disabled people, mental health services and an abundance of other fantasic services. It will provide safer, greener, better futures for our kids.
I have been disgusted by the selfishnesss I have witnessed during this election. The masses brainwashed into believing the mainstream media narrative which sets the working class against each other. Billionaires telling us that people on £12 an hour should be pissed off with the people earning £7 an hour. That immigrants and single parents are the reason that we are in the mess we are in. That because we are in Europe we are in the mess we are in. NO, No, no! We are in this mess because of almost 10 years of Tory austerity. They chose to increase national debt to record highs, they chose to slash our public sector workers, they chose to slash our security services, they chose to rob women of their pensions! They have had almost 10 years to sort these issues out and instead we have recored numbers of homelessness, record highs of child poverty, schools asking parents for donations as they are underfunded, NHS waitlists of the chart… and the lists continue.
Whatever government rules my family will be ok. But it’s not about me and my family. It’s about everyone else. Everyone deserves the chance to do well in life. Everyone should have the same opportunities.
I hope the country votes the right way. For a compassionate, humanitarian who brings hope. There is a real chance for a real change for the first time in a generation. Vote for the many, not the few.


